Medical Malpractice

what am i supposed to do?

Im an 18 yr old guy. sorry if this is a little long but i seriously need help. i attend dayton job corp center in ohio. i used to live with my father in columbus. i have a younger brother who lives in greenville ohio. anywayz, im tryin to get a carrer in medical assisting while also tryin to gather the money to help get my dad on his feet. my father has a slipped disk in his back and a degenerated disk in L4-L5 region of his back. he cant feel anything in his legs or arms and is in constant pain. since he cant work, he currently lives with my grandmother in columbus. now for about 6 months ive been trying to get a job through training and its working good for the most part. recently though, i found out that my brother is goin to be havin a kid soon, and i didnt even know he had a girlfriend. now im the only one to take care of my father. but now my grades are starting to drop in class and i dont know wat to do. ive applied to serveral hospitals and family health clinics, but none will take me. so i have no job and no money, with a disabled father who has been denied SSI a couple times. im not sure wat to do because i feel like my entire family has abandoned me and my dad. i dont know wat to do and its breaking down my walls. does anyone have any advice for me?

Public Comments

1. You have to start a criminal career.
2. Just hang in there. I know that sounds cold but you're doing all the right things. Unfortunately the economy and the fact you're still in school are holding you back. Don't give up on school. You need it to get ahead. Your father has other options. He should speak to a lawyer. Some won't charge him until he gets paid himself. He needs some kind of representation or the courts will continue to walk all over him. Too many people lie to get benefits and this makes it harder for someone truly in need to get any. You need to focus on you right now. Without an education you won't be able to help anyone not even yourself. These are very big burdens you're carrying around, and they aren't even your responsibility to take care of. You're feeling overwhelmed because you feel it all falls on you to fix it. You can't.
3. Focus on your schooling, it appears to be the one thing you can control. About your fathers's SSI, Have you contacted an attorney on this? Some attorneys specialize in SSI.
4. Sorry about your family but have u ever thought about going back to college for medical assisting. That could be one rreason why people won't hire you
5. 1st off I wanna say im sorry for everything that's happening. The best thing you can do is stay positive and believe you can do it. It's going to be hard and you're going to have to work your butt off but do it and prove to the rest of your family that you are an independent individual that can handle anything! Keep trying to get help for your dad and better yourself!